I once told a male client that 90% of what women say is bullshit. I realise this is a bit provocative, but that’s just my style okay? Stay with me…
Last night I was called on my bullshit by a man. And I could literally feel my pussy open up and get wet as he did. As if my pussy was saying: finally… a man with balls and courage who is not afraid to step into the fire to speak his truth. Very confronting of course, but deep down inside I knew I could trust him. Obviously this only works when you make her feel she can deeply trust you at the same time. In this case, this man was just saying “ego. ego. bullshit. fuck.” to me, but I could feel his burning love piercing my pussy and heart. That’s what made all the difference.
Most men are afraid to be rejected by women. This actually is the same fear as the fear of death. Because they are playing mommy’s boys pleasing women, they never get laid. Who wants to fuck boys pulling our skirts begging for candy, right?
Man who get laid, are men who are not afraid to speak their truth. Julien Blanc once said 10 % of the men are fucking 90 % of the women. And I totally believe this is true. So you can imagine how sad it is with men.
Even most married men I’ve met are stuck in their patterns of pleasing the missis and not sharing their masculine power en inner truth with them. This actually makes it impossible for your wifes to grow up, guys. Because most women are still little girls, trying to get daddy’s approval and if they don’t they will stamp their feet (I’m not perfect either..). Are you ready to face her raging anger with radical presence that doesn’t withdraw?
When I was called on my bullshit last night I realized how much of the time I am still “bitching, moaning and complaining”.
I was vulnerably sharing with this man about my pain and what I needed before I could trust him. In my experience I was honest and open, sharing about my feelings, right? However, I was actually telling him to be like this or that, before I could give him the gift of my full surrender. This is mindfucking feminine drama manipulation guys!!! If you don’t learn recognize your own feminine manipulation, you will stay stuck in giving pity fucks to momma’s boys.
If this article evokes resistance in you, I invite you to look beyond my provocative style and explore your resistance …
What is your experience with bitching, moaning, complaining?
Do you ever do it? Do you think you often do it without realizing it?