I love Julien Blanc because I believe that outrageous feminine love awakens true masculine power.
Julien Blanc is a Pick Up Artist that teaches men how to seduce women.
He is supposed to have a very dominant strategy that has caused a lot of trouble in the world, so Julien is now known as the “most hated man in the world”. He is banned from many countries because he would be an advocate of sexual abuse.
As he explains himself, his Facebook posts in which he recommends abuse and violence against women are taken out of context. I’ve just read an article explaining that Julien was just pulling of an amazing and stupid media stunt, to get some good marketing. I checked out Julien’s real content and he may not be connected to his deep masculinity yet, but he has some good knowledge to share. Let’s take on this chance to actually start an intelligent conversation about conscious sex.
And between you and me.. if he would actually be speaking about pushing a woman’s face on his dick (as people claim he does) it would actually make me horny. I can’t believe so many women, pretend it doesn’t turn them on.. Girls, he didn’t get so successful out of the blue. Would we be courageous enough to admit that parts of his game kinda does it for us?
First of all, let me express that sexual abuse is NOT OKAY! And most men out there are very immature in their masculinity (just like many women are insecure and immature in their femininity – there is a reason you attract the ‘bad’ guys… ) It is NOT okay to call any woman your bitch and your whore, if you do not connect these sacred words to the wisdom of your heart. You need the right intention and the right energy in a safe situation, otherwise this is is NOT OKAY. Matured masculinity is not about degrading women. Is is about honoring and serving women from your deep masculine core. You can choose to consciously play the role of the dominant man to support her to open up as the Divine Goddess. Unfortunately many men are stuck in their aggressive attitude, because that’s the only way they were taught how to behave around women. And I’m deeply sorry for the women that are abused by them in any way.
I have been researching the Pick Up Artist scene myself for years. I really love the way they are making a science out of seducing women.
Like Neil Strauss writes in his book “The Game”: in the end it’s more about something called “Inner Game” than it is about “Outer Game”. Outer Game are the tricks and pick-up-lines anyone can memorize. Inner Game is the true inner transformation that turns a boy into a man.
In my work I focus only on Inner Game. I initiate men into manhood, through sacred love making rituals. This gives them a real experience and deep transformation that causes them to be present with women in a different way.
I believe seducing women is all about owning your deep masculine power with hardcore confidence by loving yourself madly. This way seducing women doesn’t become the goal, it is merely a means for deep personal transformation.
I’m writing this blogpost to raise awareness on how we are using Julien Blanc as a scapegoat to project all our secret sexual fantasies on. A scapegoat’s function is to take on all the sin and blame of a community. As the scapegoat is burned at the stake, we pretend to rid ourselves of our dark sides. Because we repress parts of our own sexuality, we need someone to blame.
Julien Blanc hasn’t been very conscious in his violent Facebook posts, and probably isn’t aware of the deeper layers he is working with. He just followed his masculine instinct to dominate women. And it worked! Of course, he seems to be portraying a childish version of masculinity that hasn’t fully matured yet. But let’s not throw away the baby with the bathwater, because he is actually making a good point.
I think it’s so sad that so many people are responding to him from a victim point of few. In the past decades women have emancipated. Women have gained freedom to work and vote. Feminism has brought us so much freedom and feminine power. And I think that’s awesome.
But the story of women being repressed by men is getting old, ladies…
Let’s not get stuck in this old story, because if we do, we keep on victimizing ourselves. In this case we (and feminist men) are re-creating the story of victimhood over and over again.
Of course we don’t want to be raped. Of course we don’t want to be treated disrespectfully. Or at least not without our consent 😉
Instead of victimizing ourselves, let’s create a story of feminine power and own the fact that we love powerful, lustful, strong, determined men.
Why else is “50 shades of grey” so popular?
In my own journey I have had some dislikable sexual experiences with men. More than once I’ve felt raped and abused. But after blaming men for a while, I journeyed inwards and I took full responsibilty for everything that happened in my life.
I owned everything and I forgave myself. I forgave myself just BECAUSE I was just a child. I held my inner child in my arms and I healed her. This obviously didn’t happen overnight. It happened through years and years of soul searching, and feeling deeply lost in this world.
In my forgiveness I tapped into a tremendous source of love. Love for myself and love for the deep masculine. I opened up, reconnected to men and listened to their side of the story. This is probably the reason why I feel such love and devotion for Julien as an underdog.
In this healing journey I reconnected to my deepest feminine desire to fully surrender to men. Because I healed my pain, I could trust and let go again and receive men’s strong sexual guidance. I reconnected to my feminine desire to surrender to the deep masculine.
I believe women need to take some responsibility. Because even though women claim to be emancipated, so many women are unconsciously still playing daddy’s good girl. Instead of just being good housewives, we are now also being good employees, managers, directors or entrepreneurs. But we’re still trying to proof something. Still working hard to proof that we are just as good, if not better than men. We’re still fighting the war on gender.
Our men have either become soft diaper changing wimps or aggressive dominators. We have neglected the needs of our men, saying they’re not good enough, taking revenge on them.
Women saying they don’t need men, are bullshitting!! We complain about our lovers not fully satisfying us. We reject them and make them feel insecure, until they feel like failures because they can not sexually perform well enough. Isn’t it sad by itself that our men need to take seduction classes for us to even give them a chance to connect to us?
I feel we as women have forgotten how to receive men and how important it is to do so. We have lost our trust in men and we’re often holding on to the past moaning, bitching and complaining about these so called two thousand years of repression.
I rarely hear women take their responsibilty. Instead women are victimizing themselves, because why should a victim take responsibilty for anything, right? Okay, maybe women have been suppressed, and maybe things have happened that shouldn’t have. But we can take responsibility NOW for this moment in time. We can ask ourselves what caused our men to so deeply mistrust us that they felt they needed to disrespectfully dominate and burn us? I think every woman should ask herself.. how am I rejecting men? How does this make me responsible for war in the world?
Domination is a playful way of easing the feminine mind into surrender. Thank God Julien Blanc gets this!!!
If a women is fully centered and healthy in her own sexuality, she might LOVE getting her hair pulled and her ass smacked by a CONSCIOUS, awake man.
Women need let go of their fear to be judged when they allow their slutty side to come out.
The real problem is that many women actually still feel abused by men, they’re holding on to past experiences and they haven’t healed their own sexuality. There is too much hurt and pain in the way. They are too afraid to receive the power of the masculine, as they suppress their own sexual power. And so women continue to victimize themselves and blame our men.
The problem of many men is, that they fear this dominant part in themselves and they are not fully received by women in it. After years of feminism they try to be the good boy. But you know what, this good boy is booooorinng! A man trying to please a women is mighty unattractive.
Interestingly enough, even Julien is playing the good boy as he is apologizing for his ‘bad behavior’ on CNN.
I think it’s really sad that he is pretending to be a good boy, by taking back what he said. I think instead of taking it back, he should have OWNED it. Telling the world exactly why and how women love to be dominated. Or should I say, to be taken by conscious masculine presence. But maybe he doesn’t quite get what that means yet…
I believe his masculine instinct was correct, but because he’s not connected to the deep masculine power within, he didn’t really get what he was doing.
It makes me sad how women are proposing themselves as victims, when women voluntarily CHOOSE to be seduced by him. As they say in the Pick Up Artist scene: it is an honor to be secuded by a PUA and in my experience with the good ones this is absolutely true.
So here’s my video of love and devotion for Julien. I may not agree on everything he is saying and I think he is lacking some deep spiritual masculine presence, but I love him no matter what, because I believe outrageous love is the answer to everything and the only thing that will heal and transform us.
As a Religion Scientist I’ve been doing research on “authentic masculinity” and I am writing a book about my knowledge and experience as an intimacy coach and sharing my radical feminine desire. I would love to stay connected! Sign up for my news letter and youtube channel to receive more outrageous love!! Together we can really make a difference and contribute to the rise of deep feminine power that receives the deep masculine in her puddle of joy! Join in on my love for Julien in the Facebook group “We Love Julien Blanc”.
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